Elaine M DeGroot

Our 42nd wedding anniversary inspired this month's topic…ROMANCE!

Romance is key to my writing. Yes, steamy moments are important, and I enjoy writing those scenes, but romance/passion is the foundation and is so much more than steamy sex.

The Penning Passion course I took a while back gave me tons of information on ways to build passion through ever increasing levels within my story and add to the romance. Afterall, where is a great romance without passion.

So, what is passion? The Merriam-Webster dictionary offers many definitions. I'd say the following work for my purposes: "intense, driving or overmastering feeling or conviction" or "ardent affection" or "sexual desire."

I learned about methods of building passion by using the stages to intimacy. Before the course, I employed that in Sparks Fly. Accidents do happen. Since the course, I've applied what I learned in my writing of Playground Antics.

In Sparks Fly, Caleb and Ivy are "enemies," because she doesn't trust him. They gradually take note of each other's charms. Sensual touching progresses and grows steamier as it moves along. Sparks fly between them, and passion ignites like a fire igniting when the proper elements are added.

In Playground Antics, as I shared in posts on my Facebook page (https://www.facebook.com/RomanceByDeGroot), Beth is hesitant to act on her growing interest in Jace because of concerns over a conflict of interest in a project she runs. As the story progresses, their interactions work through the twelve stages to intimacy. The result? Passion grows. Bless his heart, Jace follows Beth's lead and displays a willingness to wait for her.

Romance can also be a subplot or B-story within the story. Accidental Attraction contains a B-story of Zach and Emily's friends, Ben and Julie. Playground Antics also has a romantic B-story involving Jaxon and Allison. In this story you learn more about these characters than you did in Accidental Attraction.

You can find romantic sublots in many genres. Watch for them as you read your favorite mystery or thriller or whatever you may be reading. I enjoy the Logan McRae series by Stuart MacBride, the Inspector Ian Rutledge series by Charles Todd, and the Sebastian St. Cyr series by C.S. Harris. All are mysteries and often have romantic subplots. Romance is all about us.

For me, writing romance is all consuming. You could even say it's my passion!!

Yes, reading is important for an author.

First, there are books dedicated to the art/craft of writing, I have read a few. Believe it or not, Stephen King wrote a book to help aspiring authors and not just for those wanting to write horror. I've read his book, On Writing: A Memoir of the Craft, as it has been widely recommended by many. It was interesting to see into him as an author and his thoughts on writing. I thoroughly enjoyed "I Give You My Body…" How I write Sex Scenes written by Diana Gabaldon. Does her name sound familiar? It may if you've read her Outlander series of books or are a fan of the TV series of the same name. And there's Save the Cat! Writes a Novel. A fun book that gets into beat sheets for planning your book.

Second, there are blogs, websites, and magazines, like my stash I discussed in my blog post, New Year Resolutions on 8 January 2023, dedicated to writing and that offer a host of information. (And no, I haven't yet succeeded in reducing my stash.)

I consider this all education like the continuing education I was required to take when I worked as a contracting officer. It's an important factor in any job, and writing is a job…a highly enjoyable one. To keep my writing polished and interesting this is a key activityfor me.

Next is reading for fun, although I've discovered I noticed the author in me takes note of techniques used or missteps. Fortunately, I can still enjoy the books I read. The genre I read consistently is romance in a variety of subgenres: contemporary, historical, and paranormal (yeah, werewolves and even werebears!!) I enjoy mysteries with a couple of series set during the Regency era in England high on my list. The first is the Sebastian St. Cyr series by C.S. Harris. A recent discovery of the Lady Darby Mysteries series by Anna Lee Huber has me hooked as well. A book that falls under the category of biography and memoir made me cry at the end even though I knew what happened! If you're searching for your next read, I highly recommend Alone at Dawn: Medal of Honor Recipient John Chapman and the Untold Story of the World's Deadliest Special Operations Force by Dan Schilling and Lori Longfritz. The one genre I don't read is horror. I don't watch those movies either.

So there you have it. Reading is important for everyone. I'm so blessed that my mom instilled a love of reading in me with bedtime stories and regular library visits.

Happy reading to us all!!

I've read that it's important to establish your author brand, so people form an accurate image of who you are as an author. Okay, so let's see how I'm doing.

My social media (Facebook) and my website (Romance DeGrootified), my books, my interactions (in-person and through my newsletter), and my personality all go into this.

I love having a website and Facebook page to show my works, to share my thoughts on writing, to share what I've learned, and to share pieces of me & my life with you. This is my way of establishing my brand as an author.

Much of my brand relates to my writing of steamy romance. The book covers depict the steamy nature of my stories. I love how the covers relate to the story.

The stories develop in my imagination through the inspiration of my life experiences, my careers, my likes, and passions. Those have been DeGrootified for my stories. All are critical aspects of who I am and reflect on my author brand.

To deepen your understanding of me as an author, I've shared my many woes/trials and travails of the writing and the editing process. I think this is a critical piece of my author brand...my quest for creating the best stories for my readers. The method I use for writing has changed from typing to handwriting my first draft. My first edit is when I transcribe the first draft into the computer. After that I use an online editing platform, AutoCrit, to work magic on my writing. Hours of editing happen, and yet errors and discrepancies persist. A definite frustration factor for me! I print out the story and read it in search of errors or better words for the proper meaning or effect. I have MS Word read it aloud while I watch the words go by. This is to catch flow issues and clumsy wording. Lately, I have the view on 200% to make it easier to catch punctuation errors. I share this process with you through posts, so you understand the vast amount of effort each book contains.

I believe what I share provides insight into who I am as a person and an author. I share stories of my author assistant, Missy, and how she "helps" with my journey; the wine I like to drink; how & why I've named characters as I have; the happenings in my life like entering Accidental Attraction for an award and winning and participating in writing challenges with the results; and where I write are some of the information I've shared regarding who I am.

All of this goes into establishing my author brand. I hope you all have an image of who I am as an author, and how I do this not just for me but for you, too.

Happy reading!!

My hubby, Mike, recommended a theme of "April showers bring May flowers" be applied to this month's blog post. He's brilliant! Ideas and inspirations in April can become stories in May.

There's another short story challenge starting soon in AutoCrit. That's always fun writing with challenging topics and twists thrown in. Yes, I plan to participate.

And I've been consolidating writing prompts—short ideas to inspire your writing. I've been going through years of emails with five prompts in each message. Of course, this effort is cleaning out my email which is a good thing and should have been done a long time ago, but that's neither here nor there. There are some great prompts to consider. The resulting stories can be a short story or blossom into a longer story, a novella or full-length novel. I still have more years to go through, so I'll have many inspirational prompts to work with.

(A quick aside: Speaking of short stories, I should take time to write a few to send out to my Newsletter subscribers. Maybe even try different genres. Those prompts are definitely going to be handy to have!)

Writing needs to be a habit. Be it writing a snippet in response to a prompt or another scene for an ongoing story. It's like training for a sport. You need to practice and keep your writing skills sharp. Habits often require schedules. Many authors schedule their writing. I'm sure a schedule makes it easier to become a habit. Do I have a writing schedule? No schedule, just sketchy plans that either happen or not. Maybe I need to take this more seriously and build a schedule? Nah, that's not in my wheelhouse since retirement. I do promise to continue writing. The many ideas in my head need an outlet!

Keep on reading. I'll do the same as well as writing!

Learning never ends! It doesn't matter what you do, training keeps you at the top of your chosen profession.

Previously, I'd written about the writing training I've purchased to help me improve my writing skills. See blog posts: New Year Resolutions on January 8, 2023 and Editing: Like a Search and Destroy Mission on August 27, 2022. I also participate in weekly AutoCrit YouTube sessions which are informative and fun. There are other training sources, such as The Authors Guild, Reedsy, and Authors Publish.

Recently, I bought a short training course, Penning Passion, from AutoCrit that is specifically focused on my genre of choice: ROMANCE! Yes, I'm planning to learn more about writing romance. The training is in the form of four one hour Zoom sessions. I am so looking forward to this training! The modules are as follows: The Science and Psychology of Romance, Crafting Connection: The Heart of Writing Romance, The Characters of Romance, and Putting your Best Foot Forward. This ought to be interesting. The sessions begin on March 20th and end on April 10th. Please wish me well.

Other training has focused on the business of writing. You read that right—business. Fun topics like taxes, marketing, key words related to internet searches, and so on.

Will all this training change how I write? Only for the better. I still plan on more steamy romances. Trust me on that.

Happy training to me and happy reading to you all!!

Valentine's Day has come and gone, with no chocolates consumed. Say What??!! But I did get a story idea, while ruminating on the holiday. Yeah, no telling where or when a story idea comes to light!

Here's my idea: a series based on holiday related romances might be my next author adventure. Stay with me on this…I wouldn't write about the usual holiday included in romances like Valentines Day or Christmas. Nah, I'll latch onto some of the forgotten holidays. Those that come and go without much notice or hoopla. Here are a few of my ideas. Let me know what you think by commenting on this post.

1.      President's Day: Costumed re-enactors bump into each other as fate intervenes into their lives. Consider a President Teddy Roosevelt (Bully!) and a Dolly Madison. She's running around with a large portrait of George Washington. Hopefully he's not carrying a big stick—that collision could cause some damage.

2.      St. Patrick's Day: A drunken brawl at an Irish pub results in the owner falling for the responding cop.

3.      May Day: As young children, she left a May basket on his step. He caught her—their first kiss. Years later, she returns to town to care for her parents. He never left and still has bits of the May basket in a wooden box.

4.      4th of July: Errant fireworks set her backyard she-shed on fire. He's the firefight responding…KISMET!!

5.      Labor Day: a play on words, her sister goes into labor early and he's the doctor on duty for the holiday weekend.

What do ya think? Granted, a few of those holidays aren't truly forgotten, but this idea is in its infancy! Am I onto something here?

Story ideas can happen from a picture, an experience, a song, a writing prompt, or something overheard.

May the ideas never dry up!

Happy reading to you and happy writing to me.

Do I have writing related resolutions? Kind of/sort of. Write more. Continue to participate in challenges. Read my writing magazines instead of hoarding them. Start and finish the courses I have to expand my writing knowledge: English Grammar Boot Camp; Effective Editing: How to Take Your Writing to the Next Level; How to Write Best Selling Fiction; Building Great Sentences: Exploring the Writer's Craft; and Writing Great Fiction: Storytelling Tips and Techniques. (Sounds like fun, huh?)

My goals are to publish additional books. My plan is Accidental Attraction first. Why? After the Consequential Love Series, a shorter fun romance seemed like a good choice. A longer romance, Restoration, is next in my game plan. This uses up all my currently finished books. So, I need to finish Sparks Fly by springtime. Playground Antics is in the wings, but I seriously want to write a Christmas or New Year's story.

Additional Garrett and Leigh stories would be fun. I love those two, so need additional ideas for stories and a catchy series title. Yeah, I would love to write another series for them.

Sound doable? I think so.